Month: August 2016

ONE-SIDED… 

So you love him?  Madly deeply totally and completely? And he doesnot loves you back? Oh! 

  1. You have a boyfriend, but you cannot stop thinking about this man? 
  2. You either behave like a total jackass infront of him, or become totally arrogant. 
  3. He is caring, and you misjudge the care as love. 
  4. You dated him once, then the ‘phase’ ended,  but you never really got over him.
  5. He told he likes you, but girl! You know you are friendzoned. And that my dear is not a pretty place. 
  6. One fortunate day, you get to spend some really ‘precious’ moments. Don’t tell me you just wanted to HOLD HANDS! 


        Many of us have faced these problems (AND A LOT MORE!)at some point in their lives. They might have felt guilty about that, tried to suppress those feelings or went out with some other guy. For those lovely ladies, I have something to share:

        1. It’s okay to like any person as long as you are not getting crazy to the point of obsession. 
        2. Accept the fact that you are into him, totally. Acceptance is the first step. Slowly you will understand about the depth of your feelings for him. 
        3. Well, sometimes we feel a strong physical attraction towards the person we like. Its okay. Its normal. Just don’t do anything of which you would not be proud of. 
        4. Adultery is bad, well if you think its bad too, don’t do it. Or if you have done it already, burn the hatchet and move on. Don’t drown yourself in self-guilt.  Life is short. 
        5. Don’t cry over the fact that HE friendzoned you. If you cannot accept the fact, then simply say that on his face. 
        6. HE might be very good, but you are no less baby. Look around, there are tons of things to do. Do your job properly, get an award, donate blood, feed some street dogs, reach your aim. Be what you have always wanted to be. Be your own queen… And as of love, it is always just around the corner, waiting for the perfect time! 

          SO GO GIRL! LIVE YOUR LIFE! 
          MOUMITA

          SOULMATE

          Who is a soulmate? 

          Your boyfriend/girlfriend? Your husband/wife? Or your bestfriend? 

          I guess soulmate is one with whom you have a connection of soul. One who touches your soul, one who believes in you. One who stays by you under all circumstances. Soulmate can also be the one who keeps on fighting with you, because at the end of the day that person might not want to lose you. 

                            But how do you identify your soulmate?  Will that person carry a halo around their head.? Or dress up like an angel? You know a person is your soulmate when their love for you is unconditional, when they don’t possess any rage against you for your long absence. When they understand your unspoken words and read through your silence. 

                      Remember the day when your father surprised you with your favourite dish from your favourite restaurant?  Or the day when your mom gifted you the dress of your dreams?  The day when your friend came running to you and chatted on meaningless topics just because you were feeling low? The day when your brother/sister offered to sit and talk instead of fighting?  And the day when your teacher said “Today close your books, and lets talk about your hobbies okay? ”

          Well all those times and more, we got a soulmate… 

          Moumita