Be strong. She was always being taught so. Be strong, the world is bad.Be strong, you are a woman. Be strong, you cannot afford to be weak. Be strong, the situation demands so. She didn’t know the difference between strength and harshness, so she became harsh, rude and of a confused character.. Again the lecturing continued.. Be soft,you are a girl. Be of a strong character, you are a woman.
Amidst all these bullshit, she forgot who she really was. The search for identity became so strong, that she began hating the people who mattered most. She even stopped loving. She just became a strong hard rock of no use.